
Six months of real coaching with me, for women who are done just surviving their divorce and ready to build a life they actually love.
Host of the Get Over Divorce Podcast, top 1.5% worldwide.
Sound familiar?
You replay the marriage at night, looking for the moment it went wrong.
For the kids, at work, for everyone but you.
Friends say "you'll meet someone," but you don't even know who you are anymore.
You've read the books and listened to the podcasts. You want something that actually works.
That's not a character flaw. It's a heart that hasn't been given a real path forward yet. That's what the Collective is.
My process
Six steps, in order, because each one builds on the last.
Learn to manage your mind like a boss, so your thoughts stop running your life.
Heal the old wounds so you stop repeating the same patterns in your next relationship.
Stop people-pleasing, say no without guilt, and stand up for what you want.
Rebuild confidence and self-trust until you believe, in your bones, that you matter.
Dream again, with clear goals, real desires, and a future you're excited about.
Step out of your comfort zone with the self-belief to back it up. That's where the magic happens.
The Get Over Divorce Collective
This isn't a course you buy and forget. It's six months of real coaching with me and a small group of women who get it, following the same process I've used with hundreds of women over 13 years.
6 months of coaching
A Divorce Breakthrough Session to talk through where you are and whether the Collective is your next step.
Client wins
"If I hadn't done it, I would still be angry at my ex. Today I'm indifferent. I raised the bar."
Jackie
"I am different. I am confident in myself in a way I never was."
Jamie
"Julie is worth every penny. In one hour she could help me work through what seemed like the most overwhelming situation."
Jess
"That stamp on my divorce papers is my set of wings. Today all I can see are blue skies ahead."
A Thrive Sister, 3 years later
"Julie's program and coaching changed the trajectory of my life. With Julie coaching me I am on my way to becoming the woman I know I was created to be."
Jewels
"She really got me thinking right and gave me the tools to move forward in my life. She is an encourager who tells it like it is."
Kathy
Hear it from Lynn & Erin
Lynn
Erin
Two ways to work with me
Six months of deep, guided work through the full THRIVE process.
Live coaching and community, at your own pace.
Meet Julie
I'm Julie Danielson, a divorce and relationship coach for 13 years and host of the Get Over Divorce Podcast, in the top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide.
I've been divorced too. I'm a boy-mom to two awesome young adults, a step-mom to two amazing young women, and "Mimi" to their kids.
And I'm happily married the second time around, to a man with integrity who treats me like a queen. It's my goal to help you have that level of happiness too.
Questions
As long as you are physically separated from your spouse, you can start right away. Healing happens when you are on your own. The moment you join, you'll get a welcome email with everything you need to dive in, and your first group call is the very next Thursday.
Not sure yet? Book a Divorce Breakthrough Session. We'll talk about where you are and where you want to go, and decide together if the Collective is the right fit for you.
There are several ways we work together over our 6 months:
On your Divorce Breakthrough Session, I'll ask you some questions. I'm looking for women who would rather talk about their future and what they want going forward, not women who want to blame their ex and get me on board with that, or worse, get help getting back with him. (Not a fit for this program.)
If you're committed to having a life you love, you'll do the work, and you will get there. Many women before you have done it, and it's a proven step-by-step process. You don't have to figure it out yourself.
It's like going to a gym with a personal trainer. I guide you, but you do the heavy lifting. I'm just a personal trainer for your MIND.
NO. And yes. Let me explain.
Like attracts like. If you're in the pit of misery, you'll attract a man who likes that. He'll want to rescue you (often a narcissist or a predator), or he's deeply hurt and broken himself.
My goal is to get you 100% whole, where you don't NEED a man. That's a great place to date from. You're confident and healthy, and that version of you attracts amazing men, if that's what you want. You get to be selective, and you'll be confident enough to walk away from red flags.
So it's not that I don't want you to date. I want you date-ready, so you date from a place of power and create the relationship of your dreams.
What is it costing you NOT to get the help you deserve right now?
The Collective is $5,997 for 6 months of coaching, and it includes a full year in the Circle. Investing in yourself is a big step toward self-love and self-trust. It shows you that YOU have your own back.
Not ready for the Collective? The Circle is $197 a month with a 6-month commitment, and it's a great place to start.
Our weekly group call is about 1 hour. The lessons take about 45 minutes to watch, plus some guided journaling, all on your own time.
Your commitment is what creates transformation, not the information. Falling behind sometimes is normal. A lot of the processing happens in the shower, in the car, or at the store, as you apply the tools in your everyday life.
Some women say, "I don't have time for this." But a chaotic schedule is often one of the things we work on in coaching. We all have the same 24 hours. If some of them go to numbing out just to feel better, that's an area we can work on together.
I love a good counselor, and I believe we all need one at some point. Counselors are trained to peel back the layers of your past so you understand why you are the way you are. Their goal is to get you living productively.
Coaching is FUTURE focused. I teach you tools and skills to overcome the past while creating a powerful future. We work on letting go of the guilt, blame, and shame that keep you from feeling joy. Coaching takes you from living to THRIVING, and moves you to take real action on your goals.
Every call is recorded and posted in the Facebook group, so you can watch when it works for you. You also have the Circle calls on the 1st and 3rd Monday each month.
The Circle is live coaching and community at your own pace, with calls twice a month. The Collective is 6 months of deep, guided work through the full THRIVE process, with weekly group coaching, two private sessions with me, and a full year of the Circle included.
If you do the work, attend the calls including your 1:1s with me, and show up fully committed every week, it will work.
If you're looking for a guarantee, you're really looking for a fallback plan for your own commitment. I'd rather work with women who are all in, because they get the results they came for.
The Collective is for women, because of the group setting. I welcome people of any gender identity and sexual orientation, and I offer private coaching on a limited basis. If that's you, reach out to me here.
Not ready yet?
Read along on Substack or listen to the podcast. No pressure, no pitch. Just real help while you get your footing.
The Circle is my ongoing coaching membership for women who are divorcing or divorced and ready to move forward. Twice a month we meet live, you bring what's real, and I coach you through it.
Live coaching with me, 1st & 3rd Mondays, 2pm ET (60 minutes, always recorded)
The resource library: my full programs, plus a free digital copy of my book
A private community for support between calls, minus the social media drama

$197 a month. Join anytime. Your first call is the next 1st or 3rd Monday, and all calls are on those days each month.
6-month commitment. Real change takes more than a weekend. Six months is enough to feel it.
After that, it's up to you. Stay month to month, or cancel anytime after your 6th month, right from the website.
Simple. No sales call required.
$197/mo
Live coaching, 1st & 3rd Mondays each mo.
Resource library + full programs
Private community
6 months, then month to month

6-month commitment, then cancel anytime
$5,997
Weekly Collective-only coaching
(Full Circle Membership included for 1 year)
Monthly private 1:1 with Julie
Private Facebook community
Full online Collective curriculum + workbook
6 months, one payment

One payment. No payment plans.
"Healthy and whole"
"I truly feel healthy and whole emotionally. There is nothing I can't accomplish."
- Chris
"I am different"
"I am different. I am confident in myself in a way I never was."
- Jamie
"Life-changing"
"To say that this program changed my life would be an understatement. I am 100% more confident."
- Crystal
Straight answers. No fine print.
The 1st and 3rd Monday of every month at 2pm Eastern, on Zoom. Each call is 60 minutes. Can't make it live? Every call is recorded, and you can send your question ahead of time.
Because healing after divorce doesn't happen between Tuesday and Thursday. The women who make the commitment to stay long enough are the ones who change. Six months gives you real time to do it.
After your 6th month, go to "Manage My Membership" at the bottom of any page and fill out the short form. No phone call, no guilt trip. You keep access through the end of the month you've paid for.
Yes. Some women in the Circle are still separating, and some are years out. What you have in common is that you're ready to stop surviving and start thriving in your life again.
You've carried this alone long enough. Come to the next call. You'll be glad you did.